It is my experience that not only the mother but also the daughter is a very good friend of the mother. I remember very well that my first friendship was with my mother when I was very young. It was a fun and unique experience to be her friend. When I became a friend of my mother, she began to transfer her skills to me in a subtle way and with great grace. It was not even after entering school that Ammi taught her to play educational cards, which resulted in her being a first grader then teaching Nunhall. Caram, Ludo, Kusuti were also taught by Ammi. During the game, she would turn her expected victory into a defeat in terms of Ammi. Once, Ammi ignored her and then protested that she would not play like that.
I have read many good books, will you read them? One day my mother asked a question. why not? As soon as I heard it, I was happy. Then my mother not only taught me Maulana Rashid Al-Khairy’s Morning Life, Evening Life, and Night Life, but sometimes we also had a conversation about this. As if in an imperceptible way, Ami also trained in commentary writing. Learned the rules of baiting from mom. Gradually it became a heartwarming realization that not only I, but all four of our sisters are mother’s best friends. Ammi used to take advice from us sisters and used to share many things with us.
With the passage of time, this journey of companionship became pleasant, the only difference was that now, due to the requirements of age, Ammi travels more in her past than in the present, and I became her partner in every journey, sometimes during her student days. I listen to his funny stories, sometimes the stories of his peers and sometimes the memories of the Pakistan Movement. Sometimes mom forgets while talking, sometimes she narrates the same story many times, but every time I hear with the eagerness of the first time that I am mom’s friend, but here I will proudly say that only mom’s daughters. Not their best friends. Now her daughters-in-law have also become her friends and listen to her stories from her mother without getting a bill on her forehead.
Today, International Mother’s Day is being celebrated. In this regard, we asked the participants of the survey report, “Is a daughter a mother’s friend?” Their answers are available.
Sadaf Asif (Author)
When a girl opens her eyes into the world, there are many relationships around her, but the most sacred, close and loving relationship is that of a mother. There can be no two opinions that there can be any other substitute for a mother in the world. On the one hand, mother is the best advisor of daughter, on the other hand, daughter also needs a friend like mother at every stage of life. She wants to share everything, every confusion, every problem only with her mother. If the daughter is the darling of the father, then she becomes the best friend of her mother, the stronger the relationship between the two, the more useful it will be for the daughter and the girls who are influenced by the artificial glare from outside. They walk on the path of trust, then the world stumbles them. With all the evils that exist in the society, it is important for girls to take the support of their mothers. If mothers also get a lovely daughter with them in the world, they do not think they are alone in their problems, they want to see her succeed in the world by applying the essence of her experience in the training of her daughter. The strong bond of friendship between mother and daughter is a source of satisfaction for both, mother becomes daughter’s friend and teaches every skill of life from household affairs. On the shoulder of the mother is the responsibility of raising the children, especially the daughter, who has to become the mother of tomorrow. If one succeeds in creating positive changes in his mood, many of the vices that create havoc in society can be eradicated.
Farnaz Raees (Housewife)
Where are daughters destined for everyone?
Homes are where God pleases
100% daughter is mother’s friend. My daughter and I are related like this. From the beginning I told my daughter that mother daughter relationship is friendship and my dear daughter tells me every problem and everything and I tell my things to her and I understand. Yes, mother daughter friendship is very good for daughters because the daughter is taught a lot in words. Good and bad are recognized. Such was the relationship between me and my mother. My mother knows my pulse and knows what I am going through just by looking at my appearance. Ami’s attitude towards us was always like that of a friend. That’s why we were encouraged to tell everything to mother, but the atmosphere at that time was such that it was difficult to tell some things to mother, but I made my daughter so confident and told her every good or bad thing, any problem. Say yes to me and she will tell me everything. So our friendship bond is stronger.
Asma Nasir (Housewife)
A daughter is a mother’s best friend, because she knows her mother the most. He is well aware of all his qualities. Daughters who are very good friends of their mothers, when they themselves become mothers of daughters, train her very well on what occasion and in what situation how a girl should behave. Daughters who are mother’s friends are very attached to their home. I did the same and today I am a very good friend of my mother, so my daughters are also very good friends of mine with whom I can talk my heart out.
Taslim Fatima (Teacher)
Children are all dear to mother, but daughters are closer to mother. They are mother’s friend. My mother is my best friend. When did we become friends? I don’t get any answer to this. We talk for hours on every topic. She tells me all her heart and I tell her all my secrets. When I sleep, she sleeps.At the point when she awakens, I awaken. She has let me know all her young life stories and I generally hear them as though I were hearing them interestingly.I don’t feel bad at all when she informs me of my mistakes and I feel good whenever I follow her advice. My mother stays awake with me while I study. Ammi taught me till class 9 and always guided me. Whatever I am today is the result of his guidance and hard work.
My mother was very fond of reading, and she wanted to do matriculation, but due to early marriage, the desire remained unfulfilled. When Ammi expressed this wish to me, I decided to fulfill her dream. Ammi got private matriculation. Ammi worked hard day and night and cleared 9th 10th exam in one year and passed with good marks. Mother’s companionship also saved me from the coldness of the world. I am very happy to say that I am his friend and love him very much.
Dr. Nimra Irshad
The closer the mother and daughter are to each other, the more the relationship between the two takes the form of friendship and then like the mother, the daughter also learns the pain of the mother from her face. If the daughter shares everything she says with her mother, she also feels the unspoken words of her mother. A daughter proves to be a good friend of a mother only when she is close to her feelings and emotions. A mother’s heart is like an ocean in which everything is absorbed. The foundation of friendship is trust and confidence and on this basis the daughter builds the edifice of friendship with her mother.
Ramsha Junaid (Housewife)
Surely a daughter is a mother’s friend. I am saying this from my own experience, my mother and I are best friends. I share all my things with her and she with me, I also play games with Ami. As much as I know Ami and no one knows since I was Ami’s best friend even before marriage and Even after marriage.
Umm Al-Binin (Dentist)
Yes, a mother’s best and closest friend is her daughter because a daughter is a mother’s shadow. As a mother’s temperament is similar to a daughter’s, it is easy to understand each other. The mother guides her daughter with her experience and the daughter lives in the light of the mother’s experiences in the present tense. No one can understand a daughter more than a mother and they are equal to each other.
Mehreen Bangash (Housewife)
Yes, of course, a daughter is a mother’s friend, because she is very close to the mother. Therefore, Sikh knows the mother’s pain very well, the daughter herself needs her mother at every step. Hardly anyone in this world is more sympathetic and well-wisher to him than his mother. When I share any of my problems with my mother, I get relief and feel that my mother’s attention and prayers are on me now more than ever. Similarly, when the same situation happens with my mother, she also gets the same satisfaction by telling me about her sorrows.
Wajiha (Student)
A daughter is a gift, a mercy and a blessing from Allah. A daughter is closer to her mother. Due to her sensitive nature, she feels more and tries to cooperate with the mother in every way, rather than the mother. Even the unspoken things are felt by the daughter and she shares the pains of the mother.
mahi (laborious)
When the daughter understands the value of the mother, she automatically becomes her good friend. Then, when the daughter grows up, along with loving her, the mother considers her as her friend and talks to her. She does not hide the matter but also takes advice from him. And she thus becomes mother’s dearest friend. And this also happens, just as two friends get angry with each other and fight, so does a mother and daughter, and then they celebrate each other and become friends again.